The desperate act of love

Love doesn’t come with prerequisites but it certainly got some serious consequences.

But these so called after effects are seldom recognized and realized by the people. The way they were bonded by their partner back when they were in relationship has a firm place in their minds. Our brain activates this particular memory to get it replaced with someone else inorder to fill up the space. Now, we start searching for love after the love because of some “after love” effects. This search is different and these “after love” effects are harmful and turn ourselves into mindless zombies. Before we realize the way we used to respect love, we are far away from it’s true meaning. At this moment, we start again quoting ourselves, “One love, One life.” But giving a good start itself isn’t sufficient but should be able to hold onto it till the end. Well, patience is not just a word but a phenomenon where we shouldn’t make our past effect our present, shouldn’t decide our present having being afraid of the future. Patience deals with the three directions of time whereas desperation is instantaneous (smallest unit in present time). Henceforth heartful act of love gets replaced with mindful and desperate act of love due to after love effects

“Love is a way of life”

Let me tell you about the “after love” effects that I’ve been talking about. Suppose you are out for hanging out with your friends to a city central. Now, you find a lot of couples going around you which ignites your past, stimulates your desperation and the pain of not having a girlfriend anymore troubles you all through your time in the central. A pain needs a pain-killer and thus you search for a filler for the space in your mind. The very idea of chilling out with friends goes in vain as you as in your mind keeps checking out something else all the time on your holiday. Missing the touch of a woman is an another important after love effect. Your desperate mode gets on for an instant and you act as a rabbit in your world of imagination. Then again, you come back to reality and realize that it’s not what you were before and start trying to act normal. Well, to get back to normal, you need some time may be half-a-day and that time gets wasted inevitably. To save that time and to save yourselves from the society’s imprint as a loser, you try to get someone who fills the space rather than someone who creates space and lives there permanently. A memory can never be replaced for only a new memory could be created. Soon we get to realize that there is no after love for love is eternal unlike life.

“There are fairer chances for after life to exist than after love for the love that is eternal”